Dear Members,
thinking, searching, researching...lots and lots on whether the decision to quit job in mid thirty and move to rural with small family and kids is foolishness or right thing. I have posted several threads on this matter but still unable to take a final call, . Most of do lots of thinking and planning regarding moving back to our native.l but when real time comes many of us like me start to shiver. basically because a huge liability and responsibility lies with us. So quieting a well paid job with all comfort for uncertain, less luxiours, less facilitated rural agri life is suicidal or wise decision.... or shall we wait and do more corporate job and take retirement once kids grown up and enough corpus built. because inflation is too high even a good corpus of 1 cr will not give sustainability to a person retire in mid 30's.
we have studied lots of green and positive thoughts early retirement for rural agri farming . but in real very few people could able to take the challenge but with sufficent cushion of corpus.. basic problem we may face in rural is quality education and medical facilities... and most important thing even in rural also senaio and people has changed. The world in our native village before 15-20 years when we quit the place is not the same. situations, relations, equations, attitude every thing has lots of change in these years in rural too. even if we born and studied in our village, after 15-20yers of urban life we still fear whether we can peacefully and successfully grow up our families in our own native place. it is very interesting conflicts... but it is truth and fact too. we fear we hardly know any one in new generation now in village. we may know only those few elders remain in village... since last 15-20years we were not lived in village we may not belong in our wave lenght of villagers now. it is not like when we visit our native for few days in vacations. it may be rosy but when a chap coming permanently to native for settlements, equations, relations, acceptability, things...changes.... we have to face social, emotional , cultural pressure, obligations tooo that is not the case in urban...
am aware that we educated people do lots of calculations and thinking, and hence several time we end up with not doing.....
however thought to pen down for more encouraging inputs to end all these calculations and finally to step down to enter in Rural agri farming for peace and prosperity,,
awaiting wide thoughts.....
rgds
mathew
thinking, searching, researching...lots and lots on whether the decision to quit job in mid thirty and move to rural with small family and kids is foolishness or right thing. I have posted several threads on this matter but still unable to take a final call, . Most of do lots of thinking and planning regarding moving back to our native.l but when real time comes many of us like me start to shiver. basically because a huge liability and responsibility lies with us. So quieting a well paid job with all comfort for uncertain, less luxiours, less facilitated rural agri life is suicidal or wise decision.... or shall we wait and do more corporate job and take retirement once kids grown up and enough corpus built. because inflation is too high even a good corpus of 1 cr will not give sustainability to a person retire in mid 30's.
we have studied lots of green and positive thoughts early retirement for rural agri farming . but in real very few people could able to take the challenge but with sufficent cushion of corpus.. basic problem we may face in rural is quality education and medical facilities... and most important thing even in rural also senaio and people has changed. The world in our native village before 15-20 years when we quit the place is not the same. situations, relations, equations, attitude every thing has lots of change in these years in rural too. even if we born and studied in our village, after 15-20yers of urban life we still fear whether we can peacefully and successfully grow up our families in our own native place. it is very interesting conflicts... but it is truth and fact too. we fear we hardly know any one in new generation now in village. we may know only those few elders remain in village... since last 15-20years we were not lived in village we may not belong in our wave lenght of villagers now. it is not like when we visit our native for few days in vacations. it may be rosy but when a chap coming permanently to native for settlements, equations, relations, acceptability, things...changes.... we have to face social, emotional , cultural pressure, obligations tooo that is not the case in urban...
am aware that we educated people do lots of calculations and thinking, and hence several time we end up with not doing.....
however thought to pen down for more encouraging inputs to end all these calculations and finally to step down to enter in Rural agri farming for peace and prosperity,,
awaiting wide thoughts.....
rgds
mathew